<![CDATA[The Sprouted Path - News]]>Sun, 12 May 2024 01:21:21 -0500Weebly<![CDATA[Strive to be a Prism, Not a Mirror.]]>Thu, 26 Mar 2020 23:46:14 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/strive-to-be-a-prism-not-a-mirrorPicturePhoto by Oscar Blair on Unsplash

​I had to explain the other day to someone why the term ‘Anti-Vaxxer’ was offense.
Now bear with me, this is not that kind of post. Rather this is to illustrate the harmful impact global, broad spectrum labels can have.

 

This is a broad spectrum label that is used to describe anyone that challenges or questions the current CDC vaccine recommendations or schedule. It is meant to divide us into an ‘us’ or ‘them’ mentality. If you are not with us, you are against us. Science and society progress by asking questions and exploring. No matter where you are located on the vaccine debate spectrum, and it IS a spectrum, all voices have value, all voices deserve to be heard and they are certainly attached to an experience which affords knowledge and wisdom.
 
You see, when you use broad spectrum labels, it devalues the uniqueness and intricacies of personal perspective, opinion, and experience. Especially when we add ‘The’ in front of the label, The Anti-Vaxxers, The Republicans, The Trumpsters, The Democrats, even The Catholics.
 
I have been listening to Brené Brown’s book Braving the Wilderness. In this book she talks about connection, she says, “I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
 
See, as humans, we long for connection. We do this through a variety of practices like music, art, writing, conversation, even through body language as simple as a smile or eye contact. As communicators, we try to find ways that others ‘see’ us.
 
There are several memes out there with inspiring quotes that talk about finding your ‘tribe’ often with a woman dressed in earthly wears in a posed position that tries to portray freedom such as her hands up in the air or dancing with a group of women dressed in the like. But Brené makes a good point, that your tribe are not those that think like you, in actuality, those in your ‘tribe’ should be diverse in their perspectives and opinions. Your ‘tribe’ should be comprised by those that listen to what you have to say, providing a safe space to express your authentic self, challenging you in a respectful manner that allows for contemplation to new ideas that promotes growth not only in yourself, but also others in your ‘tribe’.
 
By taking one aspect of what someone says and applying a broad spectrum label with the assumption that all aspects of that label apply to that person devalues the uniqueness and intricacies of their personal perspective, opinion, and experiences. We shut the door to that safe space, we empower the ‘us’ versus ‘them’ mentality and suffer in whole as a community.
Brené talks about how she was with a group of women at a conference. She made the comment that her and her dad were excited to teach her children how to shoot skeet. The following exchange unfolded:
 
One woman looked horrified and said "I'm very surprised to hear you're a gun lover, you don't strike me as the NRA type" Brené said "I'm not sure what you mean by gun lover or the NRA type" the woman then said "If you're teaching your child how to shoot a gun then I'm assuming you support gun ownership and the NRA" .
Brené then said "you're one for two in your assumption, I do support responsible gun ownership, I do not in anyway support the NRA just because I support responsible gun ownership." The woman looked mad and confused "but with all the school shootings, I don't understand why you don't support gun control" Brené was frustrated, and then said "I absolutely do support common sense gun laws, I support background checks and waiting periods, I don't believe it should be allowed to have automatic magazines or..." the woman was so angry at this point she then said "you either support guns or you don't" Brené then mustered up the most empathy she had and said "I know that this is a hard and heart breaking issue but I don't think you're hearing me I'm not going to participate in a debate where the issue is reduced to you either support guns or you don't. It's too important, if you want to have a longer conversation about it, I'm happy to do that and I wouldn't be surprised if the same issues piss us off and scare us." The woman excused herself and stormed away.
 
While Brené had the bravery to express her authentic self, it was not in a place that she could express her vulnerability with the safety of being heard. The broad spectrum label for which the woman applied to Brené superseded any opportunity for constructive exchange and growth for both involved. There is safety in broad spectrum labels. There is a sense that you have an army that will have your back when you are the one that applies it. It’s also lazy communication. To communicate otherwise, requires the time and the energy to actually listen and explore. It also requires you to divorce yourself from using the labels to describe yourself. Often, when we are asked about where we stand on an issue, we respond with the broad spectrum label and watch for the other person’s reaction. Some, when noticing a less than acceptable response whether it is verbal or physical will start back peddling with caveats or disclaimers, unless you have the ability to be brave and stand in your authenticity. And let me tell you, it IS an act of bravery, and it DOES take practice.
 
When we do not engage and express our authentic self, we shrink into ourselves. Even if we surround ourselves with those that share our opinions, our growth is then stunted. There is limited opportunity to evolve, and even if you do, slowly, you become an outsider within your own social construct. How many times in your life have you ‘drifted’ from a friendship because your lives went different directions or you just didn’t share the same interests? It can be a natural progression, but what if it didn’t HAVE to be? Why do we strive for ‘yes people’ in our lives when a diverse social circle can offer so much more? It’s a false sense of security, its fragile, and its restrictive. Forging relationships based on mutual valuation, respectful debate, and honoring each other’s opinions when they differ offer true security, promote growth, and contribute so much more color to our connections to one another.
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<![CDATA[2 Steps Creates a Big Impact!]]>Thu, 02 May 2019 12:47:43 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/2-steps-creates-a-big-impactPicturePhoto by rawpixel.com from Pexels
What seems like such a small thing can have a huge impact spiritually, energetically, and physically!
Through a powerfully simple, 2-step practice, we can help to re-establish that connection and awareness between ourselves, our food, each other, and the divine.

We live in a fast paced, disconnected culture. Many of us have lost connection with our food, where it is sourced, how it is grown, and how it is processed. We have also lost the interconnection between each other and the divine.

​​Here’s how it works.

Step 1: 2 Deep Breaths.
When we sit down to a meal, our bodies tend to be in a ‘fight or flight’ (sympathetic) state. This is not optimal for digestion. We need to be in a ‘rest and digest’ (parasympathetic) state. Taking two deep breaths prior to eating helps to bring us into the moment. It helps to switch us out of our ‘fight or flight’ into ‘rest and digest’. In this state, our body prepares to receive food. Remaining in this state helps to ensure that our body is able to effectively and efficiently process our food. Extracting and assimilating the nutrients into our body.

Two deep breaths also creates expansiveness and helps us tap into our Heart space. It brings life giving oxygen into our body which is also a necessary component for metabolism. Use all 5 senses as you are drawing those 2 deep breaths! Pull in the smell of the food you are about to eat. Visually explore the food on the plate and all its colorful beauty. Anticipate the sounds that the food will make as you are eating it like the crunch of a crisp vegetable or the sounds of the silverware on the plate. Imagine the textures of the food in your mouth and the different variety of taste each food will deliver to your palate.

Is your mouth watering? Good! That’s your body preparing to receive!

Step 2: The Gratitude Prayer.
I believe Dr. Deanna Minich said it best in her Nourish Your Whole Self program, “We would nourish not only our bodies but also our souls if we were able to see the cosmos in our plate – an energetic lineage –spanning from the seed, which was planted in a field and tended to by a caring farmer and workers, bathed in sunlight and moonlight, visited by a multitude of insects, to when, eventually, the seed transformed into a vegetable picked by someone’s loving hand. The vegetable made a hearty journey to ultimately make it to the store or farmer’s market. It connected with someone enough for it to be selected and bought. A chef or cook took great skill in preparing it into a dish, and days later, it has found its way to your plate. So when we are eating, we are not just eating a blip in time, savoring a present moment of goodness, but a whole past history of connection. By doing so, you acknowledge the interconnection of all the pieces that are involved in the lineage of that food.”

By creating a gratitude prayer for your meal, you are honoring the food that is in front of you, the journey that it has traveled, creating connection between yourself, the food, and all those that took part in helping it arrive to your plate and to your body.

This is a great exercise to do as a family! Have each member contribute a component of the Gratitude Prayer and enjoy the creativity and uniqueness that you will now share every day!
 
So remember, two deep breaths utilizing your 5 senses of smell, sight, sound, texture, and taste. Then, your own unique Gratitude Prayer honoring the complex, beautiful lineage of the food and the miraculous transformation that is about to happen to contribute to your health mind, body, and soul.

In this practice, we are creating expansiveness, Love, connection, and nourishment. 
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<![CDATA[Brush your way to softer skin and detox!]]>Wed, 17 Jan 2018 13:45:17 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/brush-your-way-to-softer-skin-and-detox
Dry brushing! 
Not your hair or your teeth, but your skin! Your skin is the largest organ of the body and is responsible excreting 1/3 of your body’s toxins. While we are all on this journey for better health, our choices being healthier ones, take the burden off the liver that is responsible for cleaning up toxic waste in the body.
We want to be sure that toxic waste can efficiently be removed, which is one of the reasons for making sure we are drinking enough water.
Dry brushing can help to open up the pores on the skin which will help facilitate the absorption of nutrients and the excretion of waste (think sweating).
Another way your body eliminates toxins from the body is through the lymph. The lymph system does not have a pump like the circulatory system does, the heart. The lymph system relies on the lymph vessels, body movement and the squishing of the organs to move the lymph and toxins. It can also be stimulated through dry brushing! Certainly dry brushing will not have the same effectiveness as moving your body, but every little bit helps, and it has even more benefits! 
Exfoliation! This is something that you will notice in a relatively short amount of time. The bristles will help to exfoliate dead, dry skin leaving silky-smooth skin all year round!
Some people have also reported a reduction in cellulite! Cellulite is trapped toxic material in fat cells. While there are no scientific studies that prove dry brushing will release these toxins for your body to eliminate naturally, if there is a chance, I’ll try it!
I have personally been dry brushing for a year now and I definitely notice a difference in the softness of my skin. I do this as part of my morning routine and I love feeling my skin wake-up!  

Choose a brush with natural bristles. I recommend this brush because it is inexpensive and has a removable handle.
Start at your extremities, using long strokes, brush towards your heart. So fingertips to elbows, elbows to armpits, armpits and shoulders over the chest towards the heart. Toes to knees, knees to groin and buttocks, groin over the stomach and under the chest towards the heart. When you are brushing the stomach area, brush in a circular clockwise motion. This follows the flow of the digestive track and can help support digestion. Here is a video that demonstrates this method as well as a more intensive method that follows the lymph vessels.


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<![CDATA[My Divorce from Perfection]]>Mon, 28 Aug 2017 17:08:14 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/my-divorce-from-perfection
Early on in my healing, I found myself researching everything. Information is power, right?! Maybe so, but it can also be paralyzing. And for many, the need to be perfect in their choices is causing more damage and hindering their healing.
Let's take diet for instance. Eat this, don't eat that, fad diets, and restrictions. It can be overwhelming! I, myself, have been guilty of standing in the store struggling with labels, a wave of anxiety because the ingredients are "toxic". But which is more detrimental to my health? The "toxic" chemicals or the paralyzing anxiety and frustration? Throw in being a caregiver to my family, and the anxiety increases ten fold!
I decided to have an honest conversation with myself, one I would have with a client, and that I have had with clients in the past. You have choices, and you need to allow yourself to make those choices with grace and love. Yes, you may be following a particular diet, with specific guidelines, but to go outside of those guidelines does not make you a failure. For many, their are remarkable consequences to their choices, including pain or digestive distress.  
But are you one of those people? Are you sure that the restrictions of that diet necessarily apply to you? Do you know what the consequences of your choice will be?
A healthy body can recover and deal with toxins quickly and effectively if it is not already overburdened. Stress and anxiety are elements that contribute to an overburdened body.
My point is not to convey that diet is trivial. The food we eat is extremely important in how we function, heal, perceive the world around us, and how we feed our soul. My point is to recognize and embrace balance. Strive to be "better", but not consumed with "best" to the point that you are distracted and unbalanced.
Divorce perfection, hook yourself up with love and grace.
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<![CDATA[HelloBeautiful!11:11]]>Wed, 07 Jun 2017 00:40:33 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/hellobeautiful1111Picture



​You see and enter it almost everyday, several times a day!

I really enjoy giving back and being in service. One of the ways I do this is by volunteering my time to assist the Instructors of the Nutritional Therapy Association. It is so amazing to be involved in that process of helping to educate those that will be in service, to their community, in an area about which I am passionate.
During one of our workshop weekends, I led a conversation about what gives you strength and confidence. Several answers brought forth were ones that I was familiar with, such as journaling, faith, and exercise. But there was one answer that really stuck with me. It is beautiful in its simplicity, accessibility, and power.
She suggested changing the login password into your desktop to something inspiring. Brilliant! You see and enter it almost everyday, several times a day! Its easy to change and you can change it often to suit what you feel and what you need to "hear".
On a challenging day, I find myself with a smile on my face and warmth in my heart as I log into my PC. Try it! I think you will be surprised at its effects.
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<![CDATA[Could your coffee lid be adding to your body’s toxic burden?]]>Wed, 07 Jun 2017 00:12:19 GMThttp://thesproutedpath.com/news/could-your-coffee-lid-be-adding-to-your-bodys-toxic-burdenPicture
Next time you get your coffee to-go, check the lid to see what type of plastic it is made. Different plastics are more heat stable than others, and therefore pose less of a risk of leaching toxic chemicals into your drink.

Most times, people don’t think about the lid. But consider this, the hot beverage is steaming inside the cup, heating up the lid. The steam then condenses on the underside of the lid and drips back into your beverage. Additionally, you are drinking through the hole in the lid. The hot beverage contacts the underside of the lid and allows leaching of the toxic chemicals back into your beverage.
What can you do?
​ Two things:
  1. ​Check the plastic number on the lid, the number with the triangle made of arrows around it. If it is a 5, you are good to go. This is a plastic made of Polypropylene and is the safest option of the to-go lids. If it is a 6, run for the hills. This type of plastic is Polystyrene. According to the Foundation for Achievements in Science and Education fact sheet, long term exposure to small quantities of styrene can cause neurotoxic (fatigue, nervousness, difficulty sleeping), hematological (low platelet and hemoglobin values), cytogenetic (chromosomal and lymphatic abnormalities), and carcinogenic effects. Styrene is classified as a possible human carcinogen by the EPA and by the International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC).
  2. Purchase your own reusable mug! This gives you control over what your body is exposed to and is better for the environment!
Of course, your best option is to choose glass for your hot food and beverages. But in a fast paced world, if you are going to go, to-go, the better bet is Plastic 5.
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